When Friendship Hurts (Be The Best Sister For Him, Let Go)

I must admit that in my long years with young praying adult singles, I can not anymore count using both hands how many times I have consoled a sister (lady) because she was not “chosen” by someone she liked and someone else was chosen and that someone else who was chosen happens to be someone she … Continue reading When Friendship Hurts (Be The Best Sister For Him, Let Go)

Opening Hands

This is a prayer shared by Father Pat Fitzpatrick C.S.Sp in his homily on 30 October 2018 at Daily TV Mass. Before anyone can move forward from injustice, injury, failure, loss, rejection; acceptance is needed. Finding it difficult to accept things? Reflect and pray this. I see, Lord, in my tight hands the representation of … Continue reading Opening Hands

Why We Need To Guard Our Hearts (You Are Worth It, Sisters)

While I finalized the letter to a man the other night, I can't help but think the stories of heartbreak of women caused by fear, confusion and distraction of men they spent time with. (Dear Bro, Faced with too many options? Just choose.) I must admit, too, that I had to stop my feeling of … Continue reading Why We Need To Guard Our Hearts (You Are Worth It, Sisters)

Becoming A Mary In A World Plenty of Marthas (Then Watch The Coffee Intake Gets Lesser)

Recently, I have been brushing my teeth with baking powder after toothpaste. I had the need to do this extra step after brushing and before gargling because of the tint of brown color left after I drink coffee. I have never been a coffee fan until a few weeks ago when a colleague brought me … Continue reading Becoming A Mary In A World Plenty of Marthas (Then Watch The Coffee Intake Gets Lesser)

How To Love The Woman

Praise her with a flower. Touch her with a smile. Love her with your actions. Value her by your time. Allow her to speak. Then, listen with your ears. A man who loves her will understand her fears. A man who loves her will be moved with her tears. She is defiant, brave and strong. … Continue reading How To Love The Woman